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[ewt]

Thanks, xiphias, for having the courage to start this.

It's the Ten Days of Repentance, the period of time between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur when we go into overdrive to try to repair any damaged relationships we have with each other.

If there is anything which I did over the past year which hurt or upset you, please let me know. If you want to discuss it publically, please leave a comment below; if you'd like to discuss it privately, email me at [livejournal at ewt dot anarres dot org].

I will see whether I can make amends, and make right anything which I have done wrong.

I don't promise that I can. But I do promise that I will try.

Comments

[ewtikins.livejournal.com]

I do try to repair damaged relationships as soon as I realise there has been damage, and as soon as I am capable of doing so.

Sometimes I don't realise the damage (people don't always communicate clearly), or I'm not in a position to address the problem at the time, or the other person isn't ready yet. Or, sometimes, it just gets put off. In theory it would be great to fix everything right away, or for that matter to give people gifts as and when it occurs to me. In reality, I can't always do that, and a bit of structure makes sure it eventually DOES get done. Or I at least try. This doesn't mean that I don't try the rest of the year, just that I'm not perfect and having a specific season for things helps me.

I'm not sure if this makes sense.

[free2003.livejournal.com]

your a good woman ewts. you've always done me right. i appreciated that too. *hugs* love ya.