When it comes to positive negative thinking I generally think the worst is going to happen but make an effort to try and acheive the positive. Then I'm all happy when it does work out all right. I know people who think negatively and make no effort to be positive and then of course it goes wrong! Equally I know people who think super positive who get very upset when things don't go as planned. So actually I am quite a positive thinker, but in a sense that thinks negative and acts positive...and when things go wrong try to think "well at least it didn't go even worse..."!
I also think that people can change and can become better people and learn positive attitutes, but many don't because it involves being selfless, which many people are incapable of being. Hense answers being "true, to a degree"
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Date: 2007-10-29 09:42 am (UTC)I know people who think negatively and make no effort to be positive and then of course it goes wrong! Equally I know people who think super positive who get very upset when things don't go as planned. So actually I am quite a positive thinker, but in a sense that thinks negative and acts positive...and when things go wrong try to think "well at least it didn't go even worse..."!
I also think that people can change and can become better people and learn positive attitutes, but many don't because it involves being selfless, which many people are incapable of being. Hense answers being "true, to a degree"